'trading on assumptions' came to mind the other day, and not without the influence of this pop culture course i'm taking. much dwells on the ideas of images, commodities, mediums, and what is 'real'.
i think that many would say that to assume something about another is not really the wisest course (ass-u-me). 'profiling' would have a negative connotation; even as we meticulously fill out profiles on our pages.
and why would we insist on meticulousness (spend 20 minutes on diction)? because we're good students and follow instructions well? hardly. we don't want others to make mistake; you are rounding yourself out; giving pertinent information. maybe the valuable practice of providing connections with people. fill in the spaces with specificity. if you know yourself, it is reflexive, it is easy?--filled spaces reflect this? what about the idea of filling spaces to avoid room for assumption to enter?
not leave room....i think we make sure that the image is one we could trade on ("to see me is to know me" and surely we'll both benefit from this knowledge) is an image solely about drawing out assumptions? no. can it be used to secure an assumption? of course. do we use this?
do i dress as a way to express my aesthetic values? because this is what i can afford? it was a present/free? it's code? i need for you to know something about me? my ethos demands it? i was told any other way implied negative consequences? expected? obviously the answer can be yes to more than a few.
if you were to percentage yourself, how much is individual expression and how much is 'trade'? by 'trade' i mean: depending on others to draw conclusions about multiple aspects of me: my thoughts, beliefs, actions.... and then i would add to the grid the different locations where life takes place (work, home, weekends, church). the box would ask two simple questions changes? doesn't change? as compared to home (and home as in "own home" not "parents home").
there has been scorn expressed (in my pop culture discussion group) over people purchasing complete images; even more than just becoming an image through a lifestyle (in which you accumulate accessories to promote the overall expression). i agree that it does speak to a lack of personal creativity; but conviction? i'm not sure if it warrants as much disdain.
in the daily marketplace, amidst the various layers of our interactions and intra-actions, we are multi-dimensional persons. it is a quick paced, heavily populated world. the short-cut; we are "job interview" away from a relationship that could matter?
i am not trading on an assumption, thinking you might understand what i mean, where this is coming from, or where this is going.
going...i could just say outright that in typing this out (coherently or no)---if 'trading' is common and not solely unacceptable (via the majority vote)---what about "fake it until we make it?" and what about the pay off?--a heard-of dilemma: authentic image, projected image; etiquette/code and "what is the big deal anyway"?___i would think on most sides it could come down to "its a point of pride"--my answer (and the comfort in which i make it).